Chubmeister 5000

Men sometimes say they need “precise instructions” from their wives or girlfriends on how to please them and keep them happy. But, a man needs "precise instructions" from a woman about how to relate to her or conduct himself, he's already coming from a disempowered, boy-like

We often learn to self-flagellate because at some point we had lived amongst people who demanded remorse, or worse, were outright punitive.

There comes a moment in life, often in the quietest of hours, when one realizes that the world will continue on its wayward course, indifferent to our desires or frustrations. And it is then, perhaps, that a subtle truth begins to emerge: the only thing we truly possess, the only thing we might, with enough care, exert some mastery over, is our min... See more

Enough with situationships and ambiguous romantic friendships. Throw off your cowardice and allow Eros to embrace you. Allow yourself to desire, to love deeply, feel passion, yearn, and do the thing that the modern world fears most—risk getting hurt.

Life is a classroom! Look up. It is trying to teach you. Every moment is a moment of divine opportunity and ecstasy waiting to be tapped into.

Many cannot bear it, and so they flee from it, hardening their hearts, seeking refuge in pride or nihilism.

This makes me think of a fun experiment: to imagine that god is my audience and it’s my job to entertain it