Reminders for myself

Around here I paused to explain this current piece to my wife, and she in turn paused to think about the navigation thing for a while before she agreed. I found myself referencing some events in our personal life and I was slightly surprised (in the ‘huh, oh... oh yeahhh’ sense ) where it led: the idea that you only get to the deepest heart of navi... See more

It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process, is to guarantee disappointment.

The joy in being open to experiences lies in allowing yourself to be changed by something unexpected.

After many years of working with couples, these are the 3 leading indicators it will last: 1 Marriage as a mirror: Both partners see the relationship and its challenges as a reflection first and foremost of their relationship with themselves 2 Growth together: Both partners are committed to their self-development and support each other’s growth ... See more

Keep the promises you made to yourself this year. Fight for your life.

Of course the thing about beginning again — about starting over midway through is that you have to be willing to watch yourself die.