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i bless you with the healing power of love
Chubmeister 5000
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How to be more emotionally intelligent (without trying so hard)
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Optimal grip and
It’s easy to feel like the world is growing more distant, but kindness still lingers in the smallest gestures—a stranger pulling in their legs to let you pass, someone helping you gather fallen lemons, a quiet ‘bless you’ from across the room. These moments may seem fleeting, but perhaps they are sacred, tiny sanctuaries of warmth in our everyday lives. Maybe kindness isn’t just a courtesy, but a way of saying, ‘I see you. You’re not alone.’ 💛 #SmallKindnesses #EverydayGrace
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Tell all the truth but tell it slant — (1263)
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The “killer” signs:
Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
I find th... See more
Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
I find th... See more
Visakan Veerasamy • 👫 Relationships Are Challenging + a Lot of Work - @Visakanv's Blog
Simply having a smartphone that’s connected to the global human network is analogous to actual psychedelic trip; it’s just so commonplace now that we think of it as ordinary. I would actually argue that smartphones are wilder than drugs, because at least with drugs it should be moderately obvious, hopefully, that whatever hallucinations you’re expe... See more
Visakan Veerasamy • contending with cyberspace
Whoa and Optimal grip
In a long-term relationship, if you can’t trust your partner… what are you doing? You’re very possibly wasting your time. Or your standards are so low that you’re willing to tolerate an untrustworthy partner because you’re scared of being alone.
Visakan Veerasamy • 👫 Relationships Are Challenging + a Lot of Work - @Visakanv's Blog
Hmmm and