Whoa
“Most people never experience what it is like to be with someone that allows them to speak without
1. Judging you
2. Trying to fix you
3. Trying to help you
4. Trying to defend themselves
It can be a beautiful, psychoactive experience.”
—Joe Hudson
focus your time and energy on what you want to see more of
“Sin” derives from the Greek word for missing the mark : human beings are aiming creatures.
Focusing
@vervaeke_john your quote.
"My life gets better as my thinking is more and more determined by what's true, my actions are more and more determined by what's good and my experience is more and more determined by what's beautiful."
Tell all the truth but tell it slant — (1263)
poetryfoundation.org
The “killer” signs:
Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
I find th... See more
Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
I find th... See more