Nurture
Be a bodhisattva to all of yourself
Roger This @rogerthisdell
"Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity."—Simone Weil
Throughout all these years I’ve tried to pass my words through three gates: “Is it true? Is it loving? Is it necessary?”
Because we must be sustained by a sense of what we are for, and not just what we are against. The contemplative path isn’t primarily about learning—it’s about living. Through contemplation, we begin to see differently, to love mor
... See moreworking, handwavey theory on finding a life partner / husband / wife:
- 50% of finding a partner is getting incredibly clear, painfully honest about what U want in a partner, having the courage to admit that to urself and the world (and being shown again and again what U don't
A person can’t be contained in your ideas about them. This was a core idea for us. To whatever extent I assumed I knew who Johanna was, I treated her as something that I could fit in my head — as something smaller than me. But she couldn’t fit in my head, nor I in hers: that was the exciting thing about it. You can only ever know another individual... See more