Reminders for myself
"in the end everything ends. everybody dies. i'd
much rather have lived my life with intention,
without fear, the worst feeling is guilt and regret."
- Baingor Joiner
Yarinya me kyawu ✨x.com
it's probably cleaner to say that:
> if you don't own your needs, a prospective partner can't knowingly choose to meet them
> you risk molding yourself around the preferences you believe someone to have
> you don't actually get to feel loved if you do... See more
Sebastian Ballisterx.comPeople think there’s no way that you could have succeeded unless you are faking it. And sometimes I want to tell them, ‘No, the ingredient you’re missing is God.’
Akwaeke Emezi Won’t Tell You How to Feel
One thing I’ve been trying to teach the people around me is to be aware of their agency. Stop leaving things to fate. That application you sent but noticed later on has an error? Resend it with your corrections. You ran into someone you’ve been meaning to connect with? Speak up.
Wale Lawalx.comThese circles couldn’t exist without the paper
instagram.com“Sin” derives from the Greek word for missing the mark : human beings are aiming creatures.
Focusing
So what is stopping me from stepping outside my habitual crap?
My mind, my limited mind.
The story of life is the story of the same basic mind readdressing the same problems in the same already discredited ways.




