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A good life doesn’t ask you to be good at everything. It asks you to find the small circle where you have unusual leverage, and to be peacefully avera
My father was a Sarkari Babu (government officer with basic salary) his entire life, he was at one job throughout his life. He drove a Bajaj scooter
And as Emily Edlynn, a psychologist and the author of Autonomy-Supportive Parenting, told me, kids who feel like they have control over their life exp
What’s more, another study establishes that knowing that their parents value kindness above achievement protects kids’ well-being.
Children who feel valued in this way, and who believe that what they do adds value, generally come to understand that they matter. And a sense of matt
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The hyperreal doesn’t mimic or imitate reality. It replaces reality altogether, making it nearly impossible for us to determine what is real, what isn
I say please and thank you, not because I believe it matters to him, but because it matters to me. If I am going to use natural English to communicate
Every phase of life can be shopped for at Costco. Where else can you purchase a wedding ring, a baby carrier, and a casket? It follows your own life s
when i'm tied up in consumption, creation is lost to me; i am no longer the writer, the creative, the poet, the artist, but the eater, the viewer, the
it is very Good™️ to have many many small moments of connection - a hello, a goodbye, a ‘have a good day’, a bit of chitchat - with each person we enc
i live my life this way. almost every day is full of multiple tiny interactions with no aim beyond a hello, a how are you, a smile and then i continue
It's extremely common for a man to have shiny object syndrome — to be in a committed relationship or marriage and come across a woman who arouses his
On how to practice this, which works for everyone, not just guys, by the way: First, the energy needs to ground and move down from the head. Spread
to learn any new skill, the first gate you must pass is BEGINNERSHIP it's a skill of its own. young kids have it in spades. most adults don't have mu
The fear of making mistakes is a particularly strong dampener on one’s learning. You can’t learn if you can’t make mistakes. I like the idea that mast
There’s an emerging branch of mystical Christianity that is very intriguing. I think of it as “Imaginal Christianity” (IC). You could also call it Myt
It will require: A deeper Christic faith that is so settled in the universal deed of love that it feels no compulsion to dominate, convert, or erase
At a certain point we’re gonna have to build up some machinery, inside our guts, to help us deal with this. Because the technology is just gonna get b
You’re doomscrolling because you’re looking for something to transform you but you can’t stay with one thing for long enough to be transformed by it.
A book is, we know, an unrivaled technology for living more life. The contemporary internet-abetted image, on the other hand, is a highly potent yet f
Our sensory experience, attended to in earnest, reveals itself to be infinite, sublime; it is only after reflective consciousness has manufactured for
Nature was no mere appearance for Schelling, but rather the living ground and visible body of an eternally incarnating divinity. In contrast to Kant’s
Reality is something much bigger than our ordinary senses are capable of perceiving, and learning to be in relationship with it requires us to enter t
We need a renewed metaphysical imagination. This does not mean denying science. It means refusing to handicap science with a mutilated picture of perc
" We teachers - perhaps all human beings - are in the grip of an astonishing delusion. We think that we can take a picture, a structure, a working mod
thinking about when my dad was teaching me to drive and had me do my route to school (12 miles away) three times: once at the speed limit, once at the
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So rather than view it as a choice between intrinsic or extrinsic motivation, embrace both. Cultivate intrinsic motivation to create a constant source
Everywhere we go, people are telling us what we should want and do. Bigger muscles. Less fat. Run a marathon. Deadlift 400 pounds. Lose 30 lbs in 30 d
Most productivity advice is rooted in force “Hack your willpower” “Discipline your mind” “Push through” This may work short-term. But it burns you o
If you judge someone for being an angry person, it is hard to see and welcome anger in yourself.
Fearing anger, both within yourself and in others, leads to conflict avoidance.
When we start viewing anger as a guide, not an enemy, our relationships and understanding of ourselves will unfold in love.
anger release is incredible. it’s extremely helpful. the book ‘healing back pain’ is a 200p-long confirmation of the power of moving anger the issue
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The most underrated note taking app is still the photo album. I can instantly recall what I was doing weeks or years ago. A single picture evokes a do
wispr (dictation tool) is amazing and i'm now using it 60%+ of the time when i would've typed before. i'm going to put my referral link below - if you
Instead of fighting the emotion, trying to make it stop, or understanding why it's happening, you learn to be present with it. Instead of judging it a
How to tap into the wisdom of anger. Ask yourself these three questions: 1. What do I care so deeply about so much that my anger is fighting for? 2.
The five signs of repressed anger: 1. Self-critical thoughts (anger turned inwards) 2. Passive-aggression (anger coming out sideways) 3. Uncontrolle
“the well of human sensory capacities runs deep” - examples thread https://t.co/ZSvBuXR3MU
there’s a take i think of internally as the “minimal but respectful take” on astrology, tarot, magic, etc. which is that nothing is happening that vio
banger all around; i remember a podcast interview where you were talking about diving into the taxonomy of psychiatry and understanding how so much of
That animals seemingly anticipate events should humble us more. Changes in groundwater chemistry, electromagnetic fields and sound waves make animals
everyone in the space is in their own unique way attempting to mid-wife a new kind of regenerative culture whilst simultaneously hospicing the old
The Liminal Web is a collection of thinkers, writers, theorists, podcasters, videographers and community builders who all share a high crossover in th
The Liminal Web is made up of a collection of individuals who often have a long history of feeling as if they don’t wholly belong in any particularly
