Sublime

The more we know about ourselves the better we will be able to set, maintain or negotiate, boundaries across variety of different situations.

those who were not present during the phone interviews but only received carefully de-identified transcripts, could not distinguish male from female participants, old from young, “kinky” from “vanilla”, and disabled from able-bodied participants. Given the focus on gender differences and other group distinctions in mainstream conceptualizations, we

The two most obvious defense strategies used by merging-patterned people are playing the baby and playing the mother.

Incest fantasies, however, are not necessarily so destructive.

Find people who are able and willing to help them meet their needs

Anders formuliert: Auch Opfer werden moralisch beschädigt.

There are two problems that flashers are probably attempting to solve—shame and neglect.

these actors displayed distorted thinking in which justifiable behavior was understood as aggression.

the relevant question is what happens every time they get into conflict and why their protective parts keep doing this regardless of content.