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Oliver Burkeman • Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
Find people who are able and willing to help them meet their needs
Robert Glover • No More Mr. Nice Guy
Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships
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When parents are able to reliably respond to their child’s emotional and physical needs, that child is able to learn over time that what she feels can be communicated, and responded to.
Dr Julie Smith • Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?: The Sunday Times bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold
This is done by descending into the deepest mood of great love and feeling, till one’s desire for relationship with the wildish Self overflows,
Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés • Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
anxiously attached partner can practise creating a sense of safeness independently from their partner by building their sense of self and learning to soothe themselves.
Dr Julie Smith • Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?: The Sunday Times bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold
David Barlow. He was (and still is) one of the premiere anxiety researchers on the planet.
Steven Hayes • A Liberated Mind: The essential guide to ACT
Again, we must constantly remind ourselves: In a true partnership, both partners view it as their responsibility to ensure the other’s emotional well-being.
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
Refusing to share needs with a partner means that partner will forever lack confidence and feel like a failure in their own marriage.