relationship with self
how we relate with and feel about ourselves
Supritha S and
relationship with self
The way to find what that emotional blind spot is is to ask yourself: “If I couldn’t feel judgement at this moment, what emotion would I have to feel?”
For example:
For example:
- “If I couldn’t judge my friend for showing off, I would have to feel my own hurt at not being seen.”
- “If I couldn’t judge my coworker for being disorganized, I would have to feel my own
Lesson 2: How to find your emotional blind spots
Wanting to be enough for someone else is self-abandonment.
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The desire to be special can only exist if you don’t know who you are.
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“We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.”
—Virginia Satir
Alex Brogantwitter.com
An interesting observation in Maslow's work on self-actualized people is that they tend to be less "introspective" than others. Meaning they spend less time thinking about themselves and their feelings. But they are more attuned to their inner compass when *acting on the world*.