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pikk _pokki08 • 8 cards
As a couples therapist, I have three sources of information: what the partners report about themselves and each other, how they behave in front of me, and how I feel witnessing their behavior.
Bruce Springsteen • Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
As you recall, one of the most important roles we play in our partners’ lives is providing a secure base: creating the conditions that enable our partners to pursue their interests and explore the world in confidence.
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
The core of the theory was that maladaptive thoughts lead to maladaptive emotions, which in turn drive abnormal behavior.
Steven Hayes • A Liberated Mind: The essential guide to ACT
The wife often breaks free of this stalemate first when the couple has children because she shifts her priorities to the happiness of her children.
Adam Smith • Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple
Your habitual ways of interacting with the important people in your life tell us a great deal about the defense mechanisms you typically use.
Joseph Burgo PhD • Why Do I Do That?: Psychological Defense Mechanisms and the Hidden Ways They Shape Our Lives
our best defense in chaos is a good offense:
