Sublime

With whomever you choose, feel through their layers of habitual guardedness, their muscular tension, their lonely closure and protection.

Often, relationship difficulties arise because couples are unable to see the world through the eyes of the other. Our mind reveals data to us via a complex tapestry; every yarn is connected to a hatchwork of memories and emotions that color the way we perceive reality. For this reason, healthy relationships are best fostered when we develop a worki

Here I could go as deep into my inner darkness and as high into my inner Light as I had the courage to go.

This pathway enables us to overcome the unintegrated imprints we still unconsciously share with our parents.

He who is able to bring his inner feelings into his consciousness, is willing to recognize that these feelings are not necessarily parallel to what his thoughts have realized as truth, has accomplished quite a lot.

This work of opening to ourselves is taken a step at a time. It is begun with a heartful openness

Every adult relationship requires conflict before true commitment can happen. Each struggle helps you discard yet another illusory ideal about the other person, yet another illusory title to have your expectations met. Every conflict clears away the sham in favor of a fuller revelation of this real person who has not met my every need or measured u

Our parts long for connection to our Self—just as much as we long to connect to SELF.

Psychologically healthy adults come from a background of flexibility, not severity.