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Communicate even if it's hard. Couples nowadays make a mistake of ignoring their partner and expecting them to understand what's wrong when they're not letting them know there's a problem in the first place.
Talk about your feelings and open up. Don't shove it inside and act like there's nothing wrong. Are you feeling jealous and insecure? Let your... See more
Talk about your feelings and open up. Don't shove it inside and act like there's nothing wrong. Are you feeling jealous and insecure? Let your... See more
facebook.com • Robert Kaplan · Follow
The fawn trauma response is an adaptive coping mechanism that we learn as children when our environment isn’t fully safe.
When our environment isn’t safe or predictable, we learn to adapt by dismissing our own needs + focusing on the needs of others.
If our parent figures had explosive... See more
instagram.comEven more, many “smart” people are lonely, broke, unhealthy, and angry at the world. They can think through complex problems but they can’t solve the bigger, more holistic problem of living a rich life.
Dan Koe • How to Join the Top 1% of Intelligence
even though I am incredibly lucky and love my job, many of my habits are still guided by a fucked up hustle mentality that is driven by fear and anxiety (of missing opportunities, of losing my job, of being branded as lazy or ‘mediocre’)
Charlie Warzel • What if People Don’t Want 'A Career?'
When you’re engaged at work, fully engage, for defined periods of time. When you’re renewing, truly renew. Make waves. Stop living your life in the gray zone.
hbr.org • The Magic of Doing One Thing at a Time
productivity and
I saw this and thought it was too beautiful not to share. Because when it comes to love, it’s not about clinging tightly or possessing one another. It’s a declaration that says, ‘I am my own, you are your own, but let’s intertwine our lives and go on an adventure.’
It’s mutual respect, where each person’s emotions and... See more
bloomdeepembodimentinstagram.comYou have the right to work, but never to the fruit of work. You should never engage in action for the sake of reward, nor should you long for inaction. 48 Perform work in this world, Arjuna, as a man established within himself – without selfish attachments, and alike in success and defeat. For yoga is perfect evenness of mind.
Eknath Easwaran • The Bhagavad Gita
You lose friends to marriage, to parenthood, to politics—even when you share the same politics. (Political obsessions are a big, underdiscussed friendship-ender in my view, and they seem to only deepen with age.) You lose friends to success, to failure, to flukish strokes of good or ill luck. (Envy, dear God—it’s the mother of all unspeakables in a
... See moreJennifer Senior • It’s Your Friends Who Break Your Heart
Karl Marx had a different view: that being occupied by good work was living well. Engagement in productive, purposeful work was the means by which people could realise their full potential.