intimacy
how to love better
intimacy
Sex is not love, going on a date is not love
talking to someone 24/7 is not love ,staying up all night for someone is not love
Love is someone who sees that harsh side of you and still chooses to love you, someone who makes things happen for you when you can’t, someone who holds you and calms you down as tears pour out of your eyes, it’s someone voic... See more
talking to someone 24/7 is not love ,staying up all night for someone is not love
Love is someone who sees that harsh side of you and still chooses to love you, someone who makes things happen for you when you can’t, someone who holds you and calms you down as tears pour out of your eyes, it’s someone voic... See more
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When a man can remain tender in moments of tension and caring even in times of conflict, he creates emotional safety.
It’s in those moments that a man demonstrates his love and loyalty. It’s in those moments he proves his maturity and strengthens his masculinity. She needs him to be a protector of their connection by being a provider of presence.
Tha... See more
It’s in those moments that a man demonstrates his love and loyalty. It’s in those moments he proves his maturity and strengthens his masculinity. She needs him to be a protector of their connection by being a provider of presence.
Tha... See more
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What we really seek is familiarity — which may well complicate any plans we might have had for happiness. We are looking to recreate, within our adult relationships, the feelings we knew so well in childhood. The love most of us will have tasted early on was often confused with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult
... See moreAlain de Botton • Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person
Good sex consists of two people taking full responsibility for meeting their own needs. It has no goal. It is free of agendas and expectations. Rather than being a performance, it is an unfolding of sexual energy.
Robert Glover • No More Mr. Nice Guy
The devotional lover offers selfless service, not because they are a martyr but because they set themself free from needing anything to change before they are willing to live as love.
Londin Angel Winters • Playing With Fire
The problem is that before marriage, we rarely delve into our complexities. Whenever casual relationships threaten to reveal our flaws, we blame our partners and call it a day
Alain de Botton • Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person
Don’t take the differences personally
Laura Silverstein • The Introvert’s Guide to Dating an Extrovert
The present lover makes their partner feel as though they are the only thing in the universe when they are with them. They offer their consciousness, unguarded heart, and undivided attention freely and without obligation. This leads to profoundly fulfilling sex and love.
Londin Angel Winters • Playing With Fire
Marriage ends up as a hopeful, generous, infinitely kind gamble taken by two people who don’t know yet who they are or who the other might be, binding themselves to a future they cannot conceive of and have carefully avoided investigating.