essential lessons in the art of hospitality
Imagine, though, that instead of resorting to one of these fallback positions, you asked yourself: What is the hospitality solution? What if you force
This is a hospitality solution: a problem that we solved not by sneakily chipping away at the service we were offering but by blowing it out in the op
Too many businesses donāt really understand that the core of their business is making people feel good. Whether itās walking into a store or a restaur
the qualities required of hosts: confidence, joviality, risk tolerance. It takes a lot of self-possession to put yourself in charge of other peopleās
When things are going well, thereās a process weaving from the bottom to the top. When relationships are forming well, microscopic neural networks wea
Some Weaving is in the neighborhood. We donāt talk about it much, but most social capital is informal social capital. Itās not somebody who sets up a
Every level of the weave influences every other level. It is a moral ecosystem. Far off in the distance, there is a city we cannot seeāthe just societ
After seeing some 800~ events take place at The Commons i've learned 3 things:1) plausible deniability: if you say we're here to make friends, friends
Two loves hold reality and make our universe unique to the rest: tetrahedron ā āhollywood loveā hypertetrahedron/pentachoron/5-cell ā āreal loveā ā88

In Jewish weddings the bride circles the groom seven times. I would like to do this in zero g, I'd like my wife to orbit my mass lightly, gently, susp
Life is a qualitative endeavor, not a quantitative one. Itās not how many, but how thick and how deep.
When a summons has been felt and a promise has been made, a commitment has been sealed. The life of a relationalist is defined by its commitments. The
The person makes his commitments maximal commitments. He doesnāt just have a career; he has a vocation. He doesnāt just have a contract marriage (What

Starting with language/market fit brings three other big advantages:1. Speed - Product build-measure-learn cycles, even just prototyping, can take wee
If your headline completes the sentence āOur product is...ā Youāre not using their words. If your headline completes the sentence āNow you can ______ā
Avoid vague platitudes or anything that sounds like marketing, such as āall in one,ā āfaster,ā ārevolutionaryā or āconvenient.ā These platitudes engen
Tips and tricks about how to speak in public more effectively.
The details we think matter likely donāt when we go deep enough: The āaccordionā exercise we did felt like powerful psycho technology the way it compl
Donāt aim to impress. Aim to educate. As a presenter, if my intention is to impress, perform, or entertain, Iām going to be nervous because my focus i
People who donāt take themselves too seriously. They have to be able to laugh at themselves to succeed. What to look for: This is usually very easy to
The #1 thing I look for when hiring people is FIO. "Figure It Out" You can get pretty damn far just by being: - Resourceful - Reliable - Results or
@mckaywrigley I have a bunch of questions I ask. What would you build for yourself? What did previous companies you've worked for need? What are you a
āWhere does this format fit into your target audiencesā lives?ā. Build a scenario that explains when and how they engage with your format, and what th
Many of us are wired to look at work as something that should produce monetary rewards. Or at least with writing, some amount of attention, or new fol
If you find yourself angrily or excitedly replying in paragraphs to someone elseās writing or creations, you should stop and ask yourself, āIs this my
Itās rare for a member to convert from a lower tier to a higher tier. In most cases, itās not worth it to have a way for people to pay you $2, $10, $5
To me, a membership is something you pay for to get access to a benefit youāre after. That benefit can be a community of your peers, but it doesnāt ha
We earn trust by stating our business model upfront ā instead of ads, we monetize by charging directly. Directly charging creates high expectations fr

this is a way of thinking with analogies, metaphors, play, related to sensemaking
Market forces incentivise us to get on the property ladder, and then to set fire to the rungs beneath us so that nobody else can climb up. Moloch need
āTrue teachers are those who use themselves as bridges over which they invite their students to cross; then, having facilitated their crossing, joyful
Why Figma Wins
Artificial invitation mechanisms (i.e refer a friend) are not PLG. Sustainable growth from the product comes from built in in natural product-led acqu
The second built in PLA channel Cash App is using is billboardingāwhen a userās use of your product is visible to others around them. For example:When