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But ask permission to tackle the whole thing and you'll be met with delays and blank stares.

David Thomas • The Pragmatic Programmer: From Journeyman to Master

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A happy, healthy home is not without problems, but these problems can be fixed rather than swept under the rug where they build into huge mounds. Conflicts are resolved, and there are competent adults who can problem—solve a variety of needs. This is critically important in the arena of relationships. A child needs to know that there can be angry

Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed

if you want a relationship to last a long time, somehow you have to keep the scar tissue from building up. And that's really hard. So, when there's an issue, you somehow have to resolve it where there is zero lingering animosity. Nobody is even a little bit upset. Because even a little upset, that scar tissue that accumulates, that never goes away

Talk Given by John Ousterhout About Sustaining Relationships

“Why are you here now?” Patch said. “To ask forgiveness for acts I know in my heart I will commit again.”

Chris Whitaker • All the Colors of the Dark: A Read with Jenna Pick

patch tradicional (cerebral, perfeccionista) x patch contemporâneo (que respeita o trabalho das mãos, nos primórdios também foi assim)

tecido é tecido, não é papel

tecido é macio, é mole, dança, mexe

papel não sai do lugar, é estático

mesma falta de lógica da textura rústica feita com massa corrida

ATENÇÃO: dar outro nome para o patch tradicional

Repair attempts are a secret weapon of emotionally intelligent couples—

John Gottman • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

Ella said through tears that these friendship flame-outs showed her the four things that need to be in place for a friendship rift to heal: communication, transparency, empathy, and mutual motivation to repair the friendship.