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The internet is to Men what the sexual revolution was for women.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
no âmbito pessoal o que a torna desejável é sua submissão ao controle.
Naomi Wolf • O mito da beleza: Como as imagens de beleza são usadas contra as mulheres (Portuguese Edition)
The All-or-Nothing Marriage — Eli J. Finkel
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Armed with his friends’ support, Chris stood up to his wife and for the first time refused to back down. After several challenging conversations, his wife threatened him with divorce. When Chris called her bluff and accepted her offer, she panicked. Her communications with Chris have shifted drastically to a place of mutual problem solving instead
... See moreAdam Smith • Slaying Your Fear: A guide for people who grapple with insecurity
I tend to promote the idea that Men should be sexually, emotionally and relationally non-exclusive until age 30, but this is a minimal suggestion. I think 35 may even serve better for Men. The importance being that as a Man ages and matures in his career, his ambitions and passions, his personality, his ability to better judge character, his overal
... See moreRollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
Stage I societies had a dilemma: marriage guaranteed women economic security for a lifetime but failed to guarantee men sexual gratification for a lifetime. So Stage I societies created a marital deal: what I call the “Marital Triangle.” The Marital Triangle was the husband, wife, and mistress (or, depending on the culture, the geisha, prostitute,
... See moreWarren Farrell • The Myth of Male Power
I had begun therapy to work on issues in my marriage. I couldn’t figure out why being such a Nice Guy didn’t make my wife happy or make her want to have more sex with me. No matter how hard I tried to please her, keep the peace, avoid conflict, and hide my needs, she was still frequently moody, angry, critical, and sexually unavailable.
Robert Glover • No More Mr. Nice Guy
In Stage I, divorces were not allowed, so men’s affairs did not put women’s economic security in jeopardy; in Stage II, affairs could lead to divorce, so men’s affairs did place women’s economic security in jeopardy. We did not want political leaders who would be role models for behavior that would put women’s economic security in jeopardy.
Warren Farrell • The Myth of Male Power
No longer acting out her mother’s unhealthy modeling, or in reaction to what she thought others wanted or expected from her, she could start making choices that would allow her to create the kinds of relationships that she would actually want to be in. Immediately, she pledged to start showing up differently. To stay aware of her feelings, needs, a
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