Because you reject certain “ugly” textures of your own feminine incarnation of energy,

Sexual availability simply means you have the capacity to respond to love with the energetic openness of your body.

there is a difference between choice and resistance. Choice is a loving, soft, intimate decision,

There is a big difference between wildly “expressing yourself” and totally incarnating wild rage.

But if you allow yourself to fully incarnate these feelings of fear, need, and emptiness—if you open as them, breathe as them, and allow your body to be moved as them—then you allow yourself to live as the full power of love.

Cosmic humor is to see the unnecessary nature of everything. This utter freedom is a primary masculine gift.

then you are not choosing “no.” You are a slave to the habit of unlove.

Just as freedom fulfills the masculine essence, love fulfills the feminine.

If you are a weak lover in the moment, you will lose yourself into your partner’s needs.