Sublime

d’un autre côté, regarde : si tu interviens lorsque ce n’est pas de ton ressort et que tu prennes en charge les tâches d’autrui, ta vie s’alourdit d’épreuves. Si tu vis dans l’inquiétude et la souffrance – ce qui provient des relations interpersonnelles –, commence par intégrer la frontière : « À partir d’ici, ce n’est plus de mon ressort. » Et rej

One more thing about power struggles. In every instance, no matter how much you might think you are right, try not to criticize the other party on that basis. This is an interpersonal relationship trap that many people fall into.

First, one should ask, “Whose task is this?” Then do the separation of tasks. Calmly delineate up to what point one’s own tasks go, and from what point they become another person’s tasks. And do not intervene in other people’s tasks, or allow even a single person to intervene in one’s own tasks. This is a specific and revolutionary viewpoint that i

1. Solvitur Ambulando or गमनेन समाधानं भवति - everything is solved by walking. When you feel stuck with something, take a stroll, a walk, and alleviate by ambulation. So, when your boss, tells you to “take a hike”, you know it’s for your own good.


2. Always be early. Early to a meeting, an appointment, to work, to any place, context

It was in March 2010 that I was at last able to meet with Kishimi, who lives in Kyoto. More than ten years had passed since my first reading of Introduction to Adlerian Psychology. When Kishimi said to me then, “Socrates’s thought was conveyed by Plato. I would like to be a Plato for Adler,” without a second thought, I answered, “Then, I will be a

tous les problèmes sont des problèmes de relations interpersonnelles. C’est un concept qui est à la base de la psychologie adlérienne. Si le monde ne connaissait plus de problèmes de relations interpersonnelles, c’est-à-dire s’il n’y avait qu’une personne seule dans tout l’univers, tous les autres gens ayant disparu, toutes sortes de problèmes disp

Now let’s say you take control of the quarrel. And then the other man, who was seeking to defeat you, withdraws in a sportsmanlike manner. The thing is, the power struggle doesn’t end there. Having lost the dispute, he rushes on to the next stage.