Sublime

An understanding of people’s hidden motives is the single greatest piece of knowledge you can have in acquiring power.

Understand your own and others’ mental maps and humility.

Albeit with a strong need for approval, since self-reliance has been discouraged at virtually every turn.

“absolute dependence—on people or circumstances to supply me with prestige, security, and the like.” Bill believed, as I do, that until we break this absolute dependence on people, places, and things, we will not be able to find real peace of mind. This idea wasn’t new. It had been discussed in the field of psychology too. Psychotherapists referred

The way to understand Adlerian psychology is simple. Right now, you are thinking, If I were to have confidence in someone unconditionally, I would just get taken advantage of. However, you are not the one who decides whether or not to take advantage. That is the other person’s task. All you need to do is think, What should I do? If you are telling

Frustration

If you take a good look at the way you have been put together and the way you function, you will find that inside your head there is a whole program stamped into you, a set of demands about how the world should be, how you should be, and what you should want. Now, however old you are or wherever you go, your computer goes along with you and is

2. What Would You Like to Do?

If in doubt, consult the commandments rather than yourself and what you believe.