Sublime

Becoming a weak beta is one of the most dangerous things that happens to men in LTRs and marriages. It is a process that women unknowingly facilitate. And men allow it to happen because we, as men, have been told our entire lives to put her on a pedestal and to be less - so that she can become more.

The Passion Trap: How to Right an Unbalanced Relationship by relationship therapist and psychologist Dean C. Delis. This was given to me by a friend when I was on the tail end of a very difficult relationship, and it was utterly illuminating. The author examines the psychological forces behind human attraction and explains the most common drivers o

In old order thinking, this equity had some conditional value to women. This used to be investing oneself into the relationship solidifying aspects of provisioning, protection, competency, and parental investment.

A good rule of thumb for any relationship is to leave three unimportant things unsaid each day.

Men have been, and should be, the more dominant gender, not because of some imagined divine right or physical prowess, but because on some rudimentary psychological level we ought to realized that a woman’s love is contingent upon our capacity to maintain that love in spite of a woman’s hypergamy. By order of degrees, hypergamy will define who a wo

Alan only found the courage to leave his first girlfriend because he believed he could earn love more reliably elsewhere. This pattern continued until he met Sara during a brief period of being single. His eagerness to help others and professed Christian values attracted her and made her believe he wanted a healthy marriage like she did. She missed

Game Maxim #21: All Game is a form of adaptive workarounds of women’s Hypergamous filtering.