Rob Parrish
@robp
Rob Parrish
@robp
Making a slow decision can be worse than making a bad decision.
And yet, ironically, for most companies, it’s rarely the metric first discussed—if it’s discussed at all. However, to build a truly great and lasting company, it must rise to the top. And what’s that metric? The percentage of key seats on the bus filled with the right people for those seats. Stop and think: What percentage of your key seats do you
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Some love to give speeches; others are nervous in front of a crowd. Some are charismatic; others are not. (Do not confuse leadership with charisma. Charisma does not equal leadership, and some of the most effective leaders have very little charisma.)
Daily rituals to rigor:
1. I started visualising my goals and character everyday
- mental rehearsal is the key to rewiring the brain
- it helped me build new beliefs, thought patterns and goals for my future.
- this has made me stronger, braver and more confident
2. I treated myself like my best friend
- I used to be very hard on myself (criticise and judge)
- this was destroying my confidence
- now I treat myself and talk to myself like I would my best friend.
- it’s made a huge difference to the relationship with myself
3. Journalling
- this allows me to navigate my mind
- instead of being my thoughts, I become the thinker
- I journal good stuff, bad stuff, hard stuff, interesting stuff
- the key is to give your mind and outlet
4. Little wins + gratitude
- I only used to celebrate the big stuff
- but now I celebrate the tiny things too. This has made my mindset more positive and open
- I add in gratitude each day because this also wires the brain to see the good in people/life.
“You have a fear of not having enough money, because you believed that money was going to make you enough.” “You believed money represented a type of energy within you…” You can tackle the wound of not having enough money through self-acceptance.”