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river stone
Perfectionism holds us back from showing up and trying, or really doing the important work of our lives. This happens because when we are afraid of failing, or feeling vulnerable, or not being as good as we want others to think we are, we end up avoiding the work that is required to actually become that good.
Brianna Wiest • The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
every m/f relationship is a dance & role-playing game
greater polarity = greater contrast b/t the 2 parties’ ways of being
modes:
giving/receiving
leader/follower
anxious/avoidant
love/fear, etc
ppl get—&/or feel—stuck when they feel stuck in x role & can't switch b/t the two
rachel (aka “jung problematic figure")x.compartnership & reverent relations and divine masculine & feminine integration
pay attention to roles & polarity in every relationship (ie lead-follow, recieve-giving)
play w contrast!
attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act
if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored
to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming
Visakan Veerasamyx.comFrontiers | Narrative as active inference: an integrative account of cognitive and social functions in adaptation
frontiersin.org
partnership & reverent relations and Self & Transformation
charisma is in the question
interesting consequence of this is that adhd might just mean you have a body with more fragments of the computation in it, distributed across society. you are responsible for their integration. suggests the answer would involve an idiosyncratic path
MAGE THE COURAGEOUS {𝟘}x.comTypes of Fundamental Wellbeing: Locations – Nonsymbolic
nonsymbolic.org