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If you’re falling out-of-love with your partner when you’re experiencing ‘rising in ‘love’’ with someone else… Take a good look & ‘autistic-ly’ list & do healing work on: ~Hurts ~Un-communicated needs ~Lack of ‘connection actions’ (doing bonding stuff together)___... See more

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find creat... See more

mulling over some patterns I find beautiful in this scene: • (pre-req idea) the existence of a health spectrum • the abundance of accounts along every point of the spectrum

I’m always fascinated by how people partition and label time in their mjnds. For a lot of people, forever/always is 3-7 years

attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming

@pragueyerrr absolutely. and what’s better than a man who takes care of a woman, or a woman who takes care of a man, is a relationship where both can switch off naturally between leader and follower for each other

1/ Boundaries are not saying no. Or making sure something doesn't happen. Or distancing. Or even letting yourself have wants in the face of others'. A boundary is simply "If you do X, I will do Y." Good boundaries:___LINE... See more