river stone
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living art and soul, lover of frisbee.
river stone
i usually describe this to people as "make your work people-shaped", which is the cognitively ergnomic way of talking about "cognitive ergnomics" (which is, tragically, not cognitively ergonomic)
mastering the game of world-building and
make ur work people shaped
David Hinton, gives some good descriptions of how "Presence" & "Absence" are essentially synonymous with Tao, with the source-fabric of all things,
"Presence" just emphasizes the way that consciousness differentiates the source-fabric into the ten thousand things,
"Absence" just emphasizes the way that the source-fabric is a single, unbroken weav... See more
Planning the Ask
A good ask has several components:
A vision of a better world that you believe in, they believe in, and your mission serves
An immediate need that you have (“We need a new X / Y”)
A specific amount, that they can give, which fits the need
A clear connection between their gift and the solution to the problem.
A good ask has several components:
A vision of a better world that you believe in, they believe in, and your mission serves
An immediate need that you have (“We need a new X / Y”)
A specific amount, that they can give, which fits the need
A clear connection between their gift and the solution to the problem.
- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them
- notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them.
- accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become
- find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more
Scenius/creative clusters throughout history
tyleralterman.notion.site
I was called in to mediate a conflict today, made me think how crucial & high-leverge this skill is. I wonder how many people would know how to do it?
I’m not a v sophisticated mediator but I’ll share my mental model here in case it is useful...