partnership & reverent relations

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more

On Finding Your People: I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet connected 0. Treat it as a second job. For... See more

hot take: the biggest problem many men have, as it relates to their relationships with women, is that they take from women without realising that they’re taking a lagging indicator: you can't see or feel her radiance (and neither can she)

today, we talked about betrayal, and I said that betraying you would be betraying myself I love you more than anyone I’ve loved before, but I love myself more and it doesn't matter: either way, the result is the same

every woman wants to be & feel chosen by the man she loves

But the most crucial part of committing is *not needing other people to validate your schtick*. When you release others of the expectation that you need them to approve of you, when you say a little "fuck you, I'm having a good time" NOTHING you do will be cringe

expanded version of these ideas https://t.co/ptEbqajnKq

what are the greenest flags you can think of?

@alcentian_one @harry_taussig https://t.co/0c6lA38IDu

It’s crazy to me that our cultural desiderata for a marriage so wildly diverges from the realities of what I see Ppl are looking to fall madly in love and then “keep the flame alive” for a lifetime. But if “keeping the flame alive” means staying madly in love & having regular amazing sex, well…maybe only 1 out of 1000 couples are like that And so... See more