partnership & reverent relations
You don’t know what your partner wants & you’re trying ‘everything’ yet they’re locked inside themselves & acting weird?
Hint: their Mind-Body desires something they can’t allow themselves to communicate… 🫣🥵😰😶🌫️
Why?
It feels too scary, disrespectful, or threatening to the status quo.
They don’t know how you’ll react; they don’t want to b... See more
attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act
if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored
to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming
- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them
- notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them.
- accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become
- find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more
On Finding Your People:
I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city
Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet connected
0. Treat it as a second job.
For... See more
hot take:
the biggest problem many men have, as it relates to their relationships with women, is that they take from women without realising that they’re taking
a lagging indicator: you can't see or feel her radiance
(and neither can she)
today, we talked about betrayal, and I said that betraying you would be betraying myself
I love you more than anyone I’ve loved before, but I love myself more
and it doesn't matter: either way, the result is the same
every woman wants to be & feel chosen by the man she loves
But the most crucial part of committing is *not needing other people to validate your schtick*. When you release others of the expectation that you need them to approve of you, when you say a little "fuck you, I'm having a good time" NOTHING you do will be cringe
neediness & committing to urself, organic-like
expanded version of these ideas
https://t.co/ptEbqajnKq