partnership & reverent relations

On Finding Your People: I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet c... See more

every woman wants to be & feel chosen by the man she loves

You don’t know what your partner wants & you’re trying ‘everything’ yet they’re locked inside themselves & acting weird? Hint: their Mind-Body desires something they can’t allow themselves to communicate… 🫣🥵😰😶‍🌫️ Why? It feels too scary, disrespectful, or threatening to th... See more

attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming

hot take: the biggest problem many men have, as it relates to their relationships with women, is that they take from women without realising that they’re taking a lagging indicator: you can't see or feel her radiance (and neither can she)

If anything I see myself as a consent-loving relationship anarchist. (as opposed to the origin of relationship anarchy, which was rooted in a naive non-consensual revolutionary attitude)

If you’re falling out-of-love with your partner when you’re experiencing ‘rising in ‘love’’ with someone else… Take a good look & ‘autistic-ly’ list & do healing work on: ~Hurts ~Un-communicated needs ~Lack of ‘connection actions’ (doing bonding stuff together)___... See more

there is a depth of love that is available to a woman when she can truly claim “I don't need anything about this moment to be different. I can hold your pain, and I can hold my own. this is important”