partnership & reverent relations

floored by the fact that he communicated this in advance god dayum

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more

“what is a woman’s erotic capital?” it’s her FEMININE RADIANCE -how good she feels to be around -the warmth of her heart -the depth of her love -her ability to hold you in her gaze & destroy & be tender w you all at once and HOW DEEPLY SHE EMBODIES POWER & SELF-POSSESSION

unpopular opinion: if you, as a woman, feel used by a guy, it’s a sign that you are using him too because he is your mirror if he wasn’t, his behaviour wouldn’t touch you there would be no negative charge. you would be able to walk on by

im slowly becoming more and more convinced that "love" is fundamentally like three different things for different classes of society

@alcentian_one @harry_taussig https://t.co/0c6lA38IDu

a one-tweet summary of why i'm so obsessed with writing manifestos

No man is an island https://t.co/gfd3LAiIUR

attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming