partnership & reverent relations

4 questions to ask yourself when you're making a profile on a dating app: 1. what do you want? 2. why are you here? 3. what kind of person (or kinds of people) do you want to attract? 4. what kind of experience (or kinds of... See more

If anything I see myself as a consent-loving relationship anarchist. (as opposed to the origin of relationship anarchy, which was rooted in a naive non-consensual revolutionary attitude)

If you’re falling out-of-love with your partner when you’re experiencing ‘rising in ‘love’’ with someone else… Take a good look & ‘autistic-ly’ list & do healing work on: ~Hurts ~Un-communicated needs ~Lack of ‘connection actions’ (doing bonding stuff... See more

@pragueyerrr absolutely. and what’s better than a man who takes care of a woman, or a woman who takes care of a man, is a relationship where both can switch off naturally between leader and follower for each other

today, we talked about betrayal, and I said that betraying you would be betraying myself I love you more than anyone I’ve loved before, but I love myself more and it doesn't matter: either way, the result is the same

attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming

how to choose to desire your partner a thread

1. Make my love bigger, less myopic on my attachment of them 2. Bring my focus back to myself. Breathe with Me 3. Do healing work on the specific emotions & sensations in my body (if I’m smart) 4. Dance. Be in my own energy. Be free. Shed the old layer of... See more