partnership & reverent relations

expanded version of these ideas https://t.co/ptEbqajnKq

- notice what qualities, behaviors etc. u admire about them - notice that u desire to have these qualities in ur life, that they are lacking and u yearn for them. - accept ur crush is at least partially projection of that desire onto them, a clue from ur subconscious about who u long to become - find creative, fun, safe ways to embody those qualit... See more

every woman wants to be & feel chosen by the man she loves

a one-tweet summary of why i'm so obsessed with writing manifestos

If anything I see myself as a consent-loving relationship anarchist. (as opposed to the origin of relationship anarchy, which was rooted in a naive non-consensual revolutionary attitude)

Boundaries are not rejection surfaces they're connection surfaces – someone's boundary can tell you about the distance at which connection could be available. If you cross it, you miss that opportunity

there is a depth of love that is available to a woman when she can truly claim “I don't need anything about this moment to be different. I can hold your pain, and I can hold my own. this is important”

@ThePracPhi it depends on what the flavour of emotion is, and I don't regard emotions as “positive” or “negative” … or if I do, I regard all emotion(s) as fundamentally positive emotion = energy moving in & through the body stuck emotions = energy being unable to move (which hurts)

WHAT EVERY WOMAN WILL WANT HER MAN TO KNOW ABOUT ENHANCING SEXUAL ECSTASY: a thread of excerpts-cum-tantric sex secrets from the book of the same name by kerry & diane riley