partnership & reverent relations

You don’t know what your partner wants & you’re trying ‘everything’ yet they’re locked inside themselves & acting weird? Hint: their Mind-Body desires something they can’t allow themselves to communicate… 🫣🥵😰😶‍🌫️ Why? It feels too scary, disrespectful, or threatening to the status quo. They don’t know how you’ll react; they don’t want to b... See more

I was called in to mediate a conflict today, made me think how crucial & high-leverge this skill is. I wonder how many people would know how to do it? I’m not a v sophisticated mediator but I’ll share my mental model here in case it is useful...

attraction in a sustained relationship is a creative act if you see the other person as like a tv show that you’re watching, you’ll eventually get bored to be in a happy relationship is to realize you are the authors, that you are cocreating the someones that you are becoming

floored by the fact that he communicated this in advance god dayum

1/ Boundaries are not saying no. Or making sure something doesn't happen. Or distancing. Or even letting yourself have wants in the face of others'. A boundary is simply "If you do X, I will do Y." Good boundaries: - don't require anything from the other person - are kind for the other person - bring you closer emotionally (i.e. you find the per... See more

1. Make my love bigger, less myopic on my attachment of them 2. Bring my focus back to myself. Breathe with Me 3. Do healing work on the specific emotions & sensations in my body (if I’m smart) 4. Dance. Be in my own energy. Be free. Shed the old layer of being 5. Pray for them. Blessing from my heart

to be a beautiful woman who can touch ppl's souls is a fantastic responsibility almost everyone will want this thing from you very few will know how to enable it in a way that feels life-giving for you the ppl who do are special. it is these ppl you can touch and should, too

unpopular opinion: if you, as a woman, feel used by a guy, it’s a sign that you are using him too because he is your mirror if he wasn’t, his behaviour wouldn’t touch you there would be no negative charge. you would be able to walk on by

By the way, the Types of Love writing is up now: https://t.co/vBw3gViVwd