river stone
@rivrstone
living art and soul, lover of frisbee.
@rivrstone
living art and soul, lover of frisbee.
education re-imagination and divine masculine & feminine integration
simon sarris in school is not enough
as i struggle with the sense of imperfection in all of my life work, i wonder if this musculature is true of me?
Perfectionism holds us back from showing up and trying, or really doing the important work of our lives. This happens because when we are afraid of failing, or feeling vulnerable, or not being as good as we want others to think we are, we end up avoiding the work that is required to actually become that good.
Another barrier to change is perfectionism’s demand for certainty before action. Because perfectionism says you need to know that your goal is correct before you spend any time or energy on it, you can get stuck spending weeks and months trying to figure out if your goal is worth pursuing in the first place. The issue with making certainty a prereq
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