Isha Ethera
@ishaethera
Isha Ethera
@ishaethera
With someone who comes well you can use the added technique of communicating your intention of taking her higher.
You will have to re-educate or recondition yourself as well as your lover to relax rather than tense. Every time she tenses, gently tell her to relax. You can tell her to push out, which helps people relax; when they tense up, they are usually pulling in.
Pushing out is also beneficial during intercourse. Usually, arousal causes the vaginal walls to balloon out, which tends to shorten the vagina. This can cause the penis to bang against the cervix, which is not only unpleasant but also possibly painful. Pushing out prevents this, and it collapses the vaginal walls so that they touch the penis on all
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Touch her only once and withdraw. Take your time before doing any regular stroking. We have found that instead of a stroke, a gentle pressing against the clitoris causes less fear and anxiety.
ORGASMIC PRACTICE
if you touch her as if you were touching silk, velvet, or satin. When you touch these fabrics, you’re not trying to make the cloth feel anything special. Instead, you are touching for the pleasure the fabric gives your hand. This way, you can feel sure that the touch feels good to her as well.