relationship with self
how we relate with and feel about ourselves
Supritha S and
relationship with self
The way to find what that emotional blind spot is is to ask yourself: “If I couldn’t feel judgement at this moment, what emotion would I have to feel?”
For example:
For example:
- “If I couldn’t judge my friend for showing off, I would have to feel my own hurt at not being seen.”
- “If I couldn’t judge my coworker for being disorganized, I would have to feel my own
Lesson 2: How to find your emotional blind spots
“We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.”
—Virginia Satir
Alex Brogantwitter.comthe self is no longer a subject but a project . The self is something to be optimised, to be maximised, to be made efficient, cultivated for its capacity for productive output. The worry is that all life activities become viewed as lines on a résumé. Knowingly or otherwise, we risk being constantly governed by the question How is what I’m doing
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Relationship with self
Andreas Vlach • 41 cards
We all have very good reasons not to trust ourselves. We’ve all betrayed ourselves badly, repeatedly, shamefully, and knowingly. Show me someone who hasn’t abandoned themselves, and I will show you a child. As we grow into adults, our world opens and we make mistakes. Ignoring your own needs and deserting yourself is a universal mistake.
