Main Character Syndrome

Shushing was once commonplace, if a little snooty and silly. Now, however, a phone-addicted culture has made us all seemingly oblivious to just how annoying we are in public. Our ways of being annoying have worsened: People take pictures at the cinema, flash on; they watch entire movies on the train without headphones. As selfishness is normalized,... See more

“[O]ne of the highest pleasures is to be more or less unconscious of one’s own existence, to be absorbed in interesting sights, sounds, places, and people,” Watts wrote. “Conversely, one of the greatest pains is to be self-conscious.”

Gen Z is currently editing themselves into fan cams with the caption "Feel ugly? Make an edit of yourself to boost your confidence.” The concept is simple: Set to Rasheeda’s 2006 track “Got That Good,” make a glamorous, overly dramatic edit of yourself as if you're the main character.

The shusher, meanwhile, knows that shushing won’t have a lasting impact. The decency revolution is not coming anytime soon. But in the meantime, a stranger in a theater might appreciate that you’ve tried to protect what little peace we have left in public.

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But the secondary problem is American individualism, which compels bourgeois Americans to focus what small amount of energy we have either on optimizing ourselves (exercise, skin care, “self-care”) or on our very close familial circle (that amorphous, ever-expanding activity known as “parenting” that includes everything from making Spirit Week cost... See more

These NYC pools kept closing last summer after people pooped in them

To outsource the entirety of your self worth to other people makes it pretty difficult, after a while, to know who you are or how to live without it.

COLLEGE STUDENTS ARE USING ‘NO CONTACT ORDERS’ TO BLOCK EACH OTHER IN REAL LIFE , wsj

No contact orders (NCOs), originally designed to protect victims of sexual harassment or assault on college campuses, are now being widely used by Gen Z students to avoid interpersonal conflict, often over disputes as minor as stolen bagels or awkward social run-i... See more