about relationships
las conexiones (relaciones) dan significado. relaciones humanas, relaciones entre ideas.
about relationships
A veces imagino las relaciones humanas como algo blando, agua o arena, y que al verterlas en un recipiente concreto les damos forma. Así, la relación entre una madre y su hija se vierte en un recipiente etiquetado como «madre e hija» y adquiere los contornos del envase, y ahí dentro se queda, para bien o para mal. Puede que unas amigas enemistadas
... See moreSally Rooney • Dónde Estás, Mundo Bello
The richest relationships are often those that don’t fit neatly into the preconceived slots we have made for the archetypes we imagine would populate our lives—the friend, the lover, the parent, the sibling, the mentor, the muse. We meet people who belong to no single slot, who figure into multiple categories at different times and in different... See more
Maria Popova • Figuring
Life does not consist of a set of unrelated dyadic relationships (you and your mum, you and your daughter, you and your best friend). Rather, these dyadic relationships are all embedded within a complex network of relationships where what happens in one dyad spills over and affects what happens in another.
Robin Dunbar • Friends: Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships
The best, most promising relationships are formed out of reverence and fearless love and curiosity and imagination. The most divine relationships constitute a messy, awkward collaboration between two savage souls who dare to ask for more from this world. Nothing is more beautiful than two people who dare to be wild and rapacious together! The most... See more
Relationships are an important source of personal growth, but for a relationship to expand us, two things are necessary.
The first is intimacy: we need to give the person we are talking to deep attention; we need to really take them in; and they need to feel comfortable enough to share their thoughts in an uncensored... See more
Henrik Karlssonsubstack.comMyself and people my age have been trained under the illusion that we can effectively eliminate any and all friction from our lives. We can work from home, Amazon prime everything we need, swipe through a limitless array of mediocre dates, text our therapist, and have a person go to the grocery store for us when we don’t feel like it, all while... See more