Conversations

@stephsmithio A few that I like: What’s something people wouldn’t know about you by looking at you? What’s one proud moment from your life? What’s bringing you joy recently? What’s a product you bought recently that you absolutely love? What book have you read the most times?

Want to get someone's help? If you don't know them well, vague asks like these are doomed to fail: 1. Will you chat with me about my career? 2. Will you be my mentor? 3. Will you give me advice on how to improve my work? Instead, make the asks *specific*... ↓

How to have more meaningful conversations. The Rose-Bud-Thorn Framework:

If you want to see your world transform, practice disagreeing without a hint of being disagreeable. It's a cheat code for life.

The Persuasion Paradox Have you noticed that the most argumentative people rarely persuade anyone? The most persuasive people don’t argue—they observe, listen, and ask questions. Argue less, persuade more. Persuasion is an art that requires a paintbrush, not a sledgehammer.

A few years ago, I compiled 10 thought-provoking questions that will spark conversation at the dinner table. I hope you enjoy 👇