Conversations

The art and science of having effective, joyful conversations

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Conversational Canyons

Henrik Karlsson henrikkarlsson.xyz

Stuart Evans

A Philosophy of Conversation

secondvoice.substack.com

Stuart Evans

I once hated meaningless conversation. I avoided them and judged those who put had them. Then I realized I was avoiding something, so I sought these conversations out and felt everything that happened in me during them. It got awkward. Soon I was crying dur... See more

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Stuart Evans

honestly a really good social rule of thumb is to not interrupt people. to notice the urge to interrupt and just drop the impulse regular interruption is such a social atmosphere pollutant give people space to surprise and delight and they will the only exception... See more

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SStuart Evans

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hello, i'm v good at asking questions. it's one of the things i get most complimented on i think what i do is simple & easy for anyone to do: 1. i listen 2. notice what i'm curious about 3. ask what i'm curious about without filtering 4. when people ask me ques... See more

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Stuart Evans

Perhaps our imperfections in conversation aren’t flaws but features

wonderwaves.substack.com

Stuart Evans

Going from being a good listener to a great listener

Sasha Chapin sashachapin.substack.com

Stuart Evans

Connecting With People More Easily

Sasha Chapin sashachapin.substack.com

Stuart Evans

When delivering tough feedback, use this framework:

Start directly: “I want to chat with you about [specific issue]”

Share observations: “What I’m hearing/seeing is [specific examples]”

Connect to impact: “We both know that to be successful here...”

Focus on future: “Let’s discuss how we can improve this going forward”

If someone gets defensive during f... See more

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