conversations with friends
Tell the person across from you three jobs you could imagine them doing well.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
What’s a lesson that has stuck with you since childhood?
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Ask about the conversations they’ve had recently. Ask what they’ve learned about themselves or about the world this year as a result of their experiences. Get curious. Go beyond the surface.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Chemistry is when you and the other person have mutual enthusiasm for each other.
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
Photos of men with their wives, an often functional arrangement not rendered from romantic love, are often much less affectionate or loving. Women, too, thought of their best friends as more than what a husband could ever offer: loyal, supportive, sympathetic, clever, and funny. Same sex friendships were often considered the best relationships one... See more
Roger's Bacon • Friendship Forever
If you could change one decision you’ve made, what would it be?
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
TIP ONE: ASK DEEP QUESTIONS
A deep question asks someone about their values, beliefs or experiences. Rather than asking someone about the facts of their life (“Where do you live?”) it asks how they feel about their life. (“What’s the best part of where you live?”) Studies show that people love answering deep questions, because it gives us a chance ... See more
A deep question asks someone about their values, beliefs or experiences. Rather than asking someone about the facts of their life (“Where do you live?”) it asks how they feel about their life. (“What’s the best part of where you live?”) Studies show that people love answering deep questions, because it gives us a chance ... See more
Susan Cain • How to turn "small talk" into Big Talk
What’s the scariest thing you would try if you were guaranteed to survive unscathed?
Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
As you get older, are you getting more cynical or more optimistic?