Some years back my wife and I got into the habit of asking each other
âdo you want comfort or solutionsâ when the other was having a bad time. That one sentence can save us from an argument 9/10 times.
The 37signals Guide to Internal Communication
The how, where, why, and when we communicate. Long form asynchronous? Real-time chat? In-person? Video? Verbal? Written? Via email? In Basecamp? How do we keep everyone in the loop without everyone getting tangled in everyone elseâs business? Itâs all in... See more
my sense is that people who take a long time to respond to messages, or tend to go into shame spirals about them, often put a lot of pressure on themselves to respond in a specific way