In love, I recently realized that the thing I value most is emotional connection. Connection is of course ineffable, and for a long time my lack of vocabulary prevented me from understanding how much I needed it. It’s that warm, fluid feeling, that sense of boundarylessness between two people, the possibility of total understanding. I care about a... See more

Communicate even if it's hard. Couples nowadays make a mistake of ignoring their partner and expecting them to understand what's wrong when they're not letting them know there's a problem in the first place.

Talk about your feelings and open up. Don't shove it inside and act like there's nothing wrong. Are you feeling jealous and insecure? Let your... See more

In a healthy relationship, a man and woman will both have needs. Needs are anything that a person requires to thrive and feel fully loved, supported, and valued. Common needs that a woman has in a relationship is to be able to fully trust her man, to feel safe to express her feelings, to feel fully seen and heard, to feel desired, and to feel

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