Worthy Woman

The problem with the dynamic between my wife and I was that she was communicating that she was worthy and respected herself by expressing her needs, but she wasn't communicating that she saw me as worthy and respected me as a man. Whenever a woman tries to lead her man in any way, she is communicating disrespect. She is taking on his role as the le

When a woman expresses her needs, it communicates to her man that she is worthy. He will be much more likely to feel that her needs matters, because she believes they matter. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

A woman who is worthy will always express her needs. She expresses them because she knows that her needs matter, she knows that they deserve to be met. Her needs are just as important as her man's needs. She knows that she would be disrespecting herself if she didn't speak up when she has a need, so she always expresses herself, even if it makes he

My mind was completely unfocused on what she might need, because her silence communicated that what I was giving her was enough. Whenever we were together, I would only be focused on what I needed.

But the second problem is that her silence will communicate that she is unworthy to her man.

The exact opposite happens. When a woman doesn't voice her needs, the damage is two-fold. First, her needs are unlikely to be met, because her man is not a mind-reader.

A woman who stays silent or tries to get her needs met indirectly through manipulation or hints is communicating that her needs do not matter. She is communicating that she is unworthy, because deep down she believes that she is unworthy.

What one woman needs isn't necessarily what another woman needs. Being able to properly express needs is of critical importance for a woman to be able to do. If needs are not expressed, they will almost certainly not be met. A woman communicates that she is worthy when she can express her needs directly and without apology. She knows her needs matt

In a healthy relationship, a man and woman will both have needs. Needs are anything that a person requires to thrive and feel fully loved, supported, and valued. Common needs that a woman has in a relationship is to be able to fully trust her man, to feel safe to express her feelings, to feel fully seen and heard, to feel desired, and to feel loved