The Friend Who Keeps on Giving
!If you're always the emotional therapist for your friends, maybe it’s time to stop charging your soul for their insecurities.!
ok so here is something I thought I would never write. Maybe it is one of the meanest and yet truest things I ever said.
Being surrounded and being friends with insecure people is exhausting. Especially as a warm and caring
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Terri Cole • Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency
We may give and give and give so much that we run ourselves ragged. In reaching out to others, we give our own arms away. We are under the spell of a misguided belief that if we aren’t always offering, providing, and holding space for others, that we will lose what little love and security we have. But even deeper is the fear of being vulnerable
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