Not coincidentally, this entire emotional history plays itse...
However, for millennia, the sexual archetype has been split: It is worshiped for its powers of creating life, and it is damned for its powers of connecting us to the shadowy realms of the body and instincts. Therefore, sexual shadows pervade our intimacies. Eros, the god of love, opens the floodgates of desire and shuts them just as rapidly. Or he
... See moreSteven Wolf • Romancing the Shadow
Not coincidentally, this entire emotional history plays itself out in the physicality of sex. The body is the purest, most primal tool we have for communicating. As Roland Barthes wrote, “What language conceals is said through my body. My body is a stubborn child; my language is a very civilized adult.” The body is our mother tongue—our mediator
... See moreEsther Perel • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
the erotic is one of the locations where tenderness lives.