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I want community – but am I prepared to put the work in?
Because people increasingly socialise online, there also has been an “actual erosion in social skills”. For younger people in particular, the loss of experience and opportunities throughout the pandemic has resulted in a lower appetite for social risk, he says: “They’re more comfortable texting than they are talking.”
Elle Hunt • I want community – but am I prepared to put the work in?
I mean, yes, I knew this, but having it elaborated with such brevity is exactly what I was looking for
When it’s real, present and felt, community can be a source of social connection, belonging, shared purpose and meaning. More often – and increasingly, in the absence of other social safety nets – it’s invoked in the abstract as something we desire, or should be working toward.
Elle Hunt • I want community – but am I prepared to put the work in?
Interesting how the author points out that often, community is invoked in the abstract “in the absence of other social safety nets”
a community is defined not by common interests or physical space, but as “a group of people who share mutual concern for one another”. It’s the difference between someone you feel you could call on for help in the event of a 3am plumbing emergency, versus “someone you technically ate pizza with” once.
Elle Hunt • I want community – but am I prepared to put the work in?
absolutely