The Two Types of Talk
Another abyss-staring strategy I’ve found useful is to talk to someone else. One reason that I sometimes procrastinate on staring into the abyss is that, when I try to think about the uncomfortable topic, I don’t do it in a productive way: instead, I’ll ruminate or think myself in circles. If I’m talking to someone else, they can help me break out... See more
benkuhn.net • Staring Into the Abyss as a Core Life Skill
Communication is about what is received, not what is intended. If there is a gap between what you are saying and what they are hearing, you have to find a new way to say it
3-2-1: How to find your way in life, the power of quiet weeks, and the problem with smart people
You can’t solve the real problem if you don’t choose the right topic. Here’s how to make sure you are talking about the right thing: • Learn the three signs you’re having the wrong conversation: 1. Your emotions escalate. 2. You walk away skeptical. 3. You’re in a déjà vu dialogue. • Use three skills to identify your topic, and prepare to keep
... See more