Vicki T
@vickisigh
Vicki T
@vickisigh
you have less leverage with your friends and that’s what makes their company enjoyable, the stakes are lower
people can tell when you want them to play a role in your life that’s different than that of a friend (something more eg: a sibling, a partner)
you have to learn to adjust your expectations (which is painful), you can’t be desperate for friendship
understanding the context of a problem is crucial to coming up with solutions
learning how to talk about disagreements is important
thinking of the bigger picture
sacrifices are required for creating art to be a priority in one’s life; found oliver burkeman’s concept of “strategic underachievement” really interesting