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For children who have experienced trauma to their primary attachment, the learning process depends on the perceived security of the relationship with the teacher.
Betsy Keefer Smalley • Wounded Children, Healing Homes: How Traumatized Children Impact Adoptive and Foster Families
Find the Bad Guy, the Protest Polka, and Freeze and Flee,
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
pathological adolescence
Richard Rohr • Breathing Under Water : Spirituality and the Twelve Steps
Psychological resilience is built primarily through relationships, and not through teaching children how to behave or even teaching children (especially toddlers) how to calm their bodies down on their own.
Mona Delahooke • Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids
Robbie had serious cognitive delays and most of his service providers were sure that a behavioral system with simple, concrete rewards and punishments was the only way to help such a child get himself under control.
Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish • How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
Do I get angry in a way that causes my child to shrink back, always agree, or hide thoughts and feelings?
Kent Hoffman • Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore
“Parents are the most important agent for change that we [therapists] can access in helping children to overcome difficulties with anxiety.”
Sissy Goff • Raising Worry-Free Girls: Helping Your Daughter Feel Braver, Stronger, and Smarter in an Anxious World
Having a Parent Who Cannot Regulate Their Emotions