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Therapy could only meet me as deeply as I met myself.
Courtnee Futch from With Love & Butter • "Body Noise" Plus Sized Existence & Other Musings
Owning How You Shape Your Partner’s Feelings.
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships
softer emotions,
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Clients with complex trauma rarely heal when they are presented with cognitive information alone. Useful information needs to be metabolized through experience. The interventions of therapy should be structured to promote and enhance disconfirming experiences.
Thomas Zimmerman • EMDR With Complex Trauma
As a couples therapist, I have three sources of information: what the partners report about themselves and each other, how they behave in front of me, and how I feel witnessing their behavior.
Bruce Springsteen • Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
creation of a relationship in which there is acceptance, non-judgement and unconditional positive regard.
Dr Julie Smith • Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?: The Sunday Times bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold
creating and strengthening this emotional bond
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Therapists who are willing can become this source of constancy and help fill the hole of what was missing in the early environment and missing in the client’s psyche.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
Influenced by the groundbreaking psychoanalytic research of Joseph Weiss and Harold Sampson, I believe that people in therapy are always struggling against their pathogenic beliefs, unconsciously looking for ways to disprove and transcend them.