Sublime

Treating everyone equally means ignoring their differences, elevating the less skillful

All social animals, including people, live under constant pressure from two competing interests: protecting themselves from others and aligning themselves with others. When these two interests are balanced, the result is dynamic social homeostasis.

everyone, women included, harbors the same basic instincts. People form social alignments with one another whenever such arrangements benefit or enhance each person’s chances of survival and replication. Our attraction circuits are in fact genetic “judges” of the S-and-R value of others.

Under the principle of Equal Fit, institutions become obligated to personalize all human-facing systems that support how we learn, work, and live.

With sincerest apologies to our fellow phenomenologists, we felt compelled to publish our observation that our research team members found men and women, the young and the old, vanilla and kinky participants indistinguishable (Kleinplatz,

5. Romantic Polarity.

to try to fit men to systems rather than systems to men.