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The emotions, traits, and behaviors we reject in our parents will likely live on in us.
Mark Wolynn • It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle

Those with a more dependent style may not only scare people away with their clinging behaviors but also become angry when their partners do not provide the perfect love they still seek. Their anger pushes others away, re-creating the pattern of their original loss.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
If you’ve been working this process, if you are on this journey of healing, you know that it is very hard work. It is major reconstruction. We are reworking ourselves on so many levels from the hardwiring of the limbic brain to our core beliefs, from our self-concept to how we relate to others, from the anxiety in our chest to our ability to love,
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Bhaumik Patel • 10 cards
Oscar doesn’t know it, but he harbors decades of resentment and anger because his parents have seldom noticed, validated or responded to any of his feelings or emotional needs.
Jonice Webb • Running on Empty No More: Transform Your Relationships with Your Partner, Your Parents & Your Children
ADULT CHILDREN OF ALCOHOLICS/DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES: Big Red Book
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There is a pot of adaptive gold awaiting the complete processing of each core emotion.
Hilary Jacobs Hendel • It's Not Always Depression
Another way they recreate their childhood wounding is by breaking the connection with others and leaving at the first hint of an emotional disturbance. When they leave, the other person feels abandoned and protests in some way, which creates the very sort of emotional disturbance that they feared. The other person’s frustration and anger then seem
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