Sublime

When I first connected with my desires, they seemed crazy and selfish. I thought they were over the top and in some cases even a waste of money. But slowly, I expanded what I thought was possible for me and allowed myself to have more of what I desired.

What parts of my life would I like to be different? What material items would be pleasurable to have around? What experiences would I love to have? What did I dream about when I was a child? Have I envied what other people have? If so, what have I envied and why? Do I want to put it on my list?

No longer acting out her mother’s unhealthy modeling, or in reaction to what she thought others wanted or expected from her, she could start making choices that would allow her to create the kinds of relationships that she would actually want to be in. Immediately, she pledged to start showing up differently. To stay aware of her feelings, needs,

EXERCISE #6: WHAT WOULD IT MEAN TO HOLD YOUR OWN PURSE STRINGS?

Now that you’ve opened your channel to receive so much more, you have much more to give. When you fill your own pitcher first, it can’t help but overflow into the lives of those you love and care about. Once you’re full, you’re able to give with a full heart. Giving out of obligation, habit, or false beliefs will be a thing of the past.