Sublime

“Codependents are caretakers—rescuers. They rescue, then they persecute, then they end up victimized. Study the Karpman Drama Triangle,”

Maintain a bottom line: a limit to how many times you allow someone to say no, lie, disappoint, or betray you before you will admit the painful reality and move on to mutual work or separate tables. This includes confronting addiction to exciting but futureless relationships in which you keep looking for more where there is only less, keep looking

Real power comes when we stop holding others responsible for our pain, and we take responsibility for all our feelings.

Beloved friends, your life—your life—is your way home! If you do not live it fully, how can you ever arrive home? Therefore, fear not your greatness. Fear not the power that comes from embracing your life and claiming its value. Live it full out with every bit of passion you can muster!

“Through the gateway of feeling your pain lies your pleasure and joy.”

We try to eliminate “shoulds” from our decisions and learn to trust ourselves.

giving you an important resource that helps you know you can handle the rough spots on the bumpy road of life

We are on a path to the Inner Child or the True Self.

“Each time you learn to act as if you are valuable, not desperate, you make it easier the next time,”