Sublime

By their mid-30s, if a man maximizes his potential, she needs him more than he needs her. Whether he acknowledges this shift is irrelevant; her hindbrain is making the evaluation. Conversely, if it turns out she made a bad bet in her 20s by marrying a guy who never became high-value in his 30s, that’s when she exits the marriage – before she’s too

At first it will be mortifying to see that she is not always good, understanding, tolerant, controlled, and, above all, without needs, for these have been the basis of her self-respect.

Competition for hypergamously suitable mates becomes more intensified with each passing year. The age’s between 27 and 30 are subliminally the most stressful for women as the realization sinks in that they must trade their ‘party years’ short-term mating protocol for a long-term provisioning strategy.

There were lies that married people more effectively than any wedding vows.

Holding a belief like this can cause us to unconsciously deplete our resources in an effort to create a level playing field for

To the detached persons reading this book: Recognize that you have been the terrible partner. Through your fear and obsessive love you have robbed your spouse of the ability to feel trusted, to feel confident, or to feel secure.

What if you took 100 percent responsibility for her openness, freedom, and joy?

talking to thousands of women on this subject, I’m convinced that in the moments of craving the deepest love, they are dying to be led into this type of profound and trustable sexual intimacy—beyond