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Esther Perel • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
According to research led by Yale psychologist Margaret Clark, most people act like givers in close relationships. In marriages and friendships, we contribute whenever we can without keeping score.
Adam M. Grant Ph.D. • Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success
unless your partner has specifically asked for help, don’t try to fix the problem, change how your partner feels, or rescue him or her.
John Mordechai Gottman • The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work: A practical guide from the international bestselling relationship expert
At some point, I realized that stopping scared me. Fighting together seemed less painful than hurting alone. Looking back, I just didn’t know how to do it. I had never been taught or seen it modeled. Gottman’s work helped me understand the mechanics
Brené Brown • Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
Our task is to find the truth in romantic love and the level on which this truth can live.
Robert A. Johnson • We
Dan McAdams. He’s a brilliant and exceptionally creative professor at Northwestern University’s School of Education and Social Policy and the author of the influential book The Stories We Live By: Personal Myths and the Making of the Self.