Sublime

And do not intervene in other people’s tasks, or allow even a single person to intervene in one’s own tasks.

Vivre dans la peur que ses relations ne s’écroulent est une façon de vivre où l’on se prive de liberté parce que l’on vit pour autrui.

there are two objectives for behavior: to be self-reliant and to live in harmony with society. Then, the two objectives for the psychology that supports these behaviors are the consciousness that I have the ability and the consciousness that people are my comrades.

PHILOSOPHER: By contrast, from the standpoint of Adlerian psychology, the basis of interpersonal relations is founded not on trust but on confidence.

You Hold the Cards to Interpersonal Relationships

Adlerian psychology is a psychology for changing oneself, not a psychology for changing others. Instead of waiting for others to change or waiting for the situation to change, you take the first step forward yourself.

The Greatest Life-Lie

Adler made three categories of the interpersonal relationships that arise out of these processes. He referred to them as “tasks of work,” “tasks of friendship,” and “tasks of love,” and all together as “life tasks.”